Women using big toys
This post is part of Mashable's Masturbation Week. May is National Masturbation Month, so we're celebrating by exploring the many facets of self-love. If you're looking to treat yourself in the bedroom there are millions of sex toys to choose from, but one of the greatest things about masturbating is you're totally in control. You decide how to pleasure yourself, which means you have the option to go big — like, really really big — if you so choose. There are some ridiculously massive sex toys on the market these days — some so large they're almost comical.
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I made my selection quickly, for the sake of my friend, though I could have spent all day in there. From a little extra pleasure with your S. And no one k. I was so excited.
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When I brought it back home, my then-boyfriend was up for the challenge, but what resulted was a hilarious scene. He said that the sight of me using the dildo was incredibly sexy, and he frequently requested pictures and videos of me inserting it.
Lucky for me, I have found several partners in the past year who share my pleasure in incorporating larger toys into our sex lives. This was it; I knew for sure that this was my particular kink, and I was so excited to discover this side of my sexuality. Not Always What Picture this. I wondered if there would ever be a guy who loved the fact that I love large toys — a guy who would not just feel comfortable, but would actually take pleasure in helping me use those toys.
I stopped, went to the bathroom to wash it off, and put it back in the drawer.
After a few minutes, I could tell he was totally not into it. When I confidently replied that I did, in fact, use the girthy, curved dildo he was referring to, his expression changed visibly from awe to distress. Downstairs, your family gathers to discuss we. We worked together at a nightclub and flirted with each other relentlessly.
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I cannot stress enough how much I love all shapes and sizes of dick. The presumption that there was a direct comparison being made between the dildo and his own penis ruined the mood for Brandon. The more I embrace my sexuality and recognize what gives me pleasure, the less I worry about what others may think about me — and my big toys. His attitude about the whole ordeal made me trust him a lot and made me feel even more attracted to him.
I recently visited a sex toy store in San Francisco that specializes in large toys, and I bought one that taught me that I do, in fact, have a carrying capacity. He pushed against the base with all his might; it took a few minutes and a lot of lube, but it finally made it in. It was as though I instinctively knew exactly what I wanted the moment I stepped in the door — like my crotch took over for my brain and steered me in the right direction. You use that? I wondered if this is why people liked fisting so much.
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Well, it fit alright, and I loved how different a larger girth felt inside of me. I was 18 and had dragged my best friend into a small sex shop in the West Village. In real life, however, it was clear that the dildo was not welcome.
My crotch was capable of taking a big dick, and that gave me a bizarre sense of pride. She was clearly itching to leave, but I made a beeline to the gigantic toys hanging all over the walls. We laughed so hard afterwards, and we both had a good sense of humor about the failed monster-dildo moment.
Still, he said he wanted to use it on me. I felt like a total dildo Olympian.
I happily obliged. Skip ! Brandon was the beginning of a long succession of partners to whom I tried to express my love of big toys, but who ultimately shut me down in one way or another. I immediately realized my eyes had been larger than my vagina, so to speak.
In fact, some of my favorite penises have been on the smaller side. Most importantly, I knew he understood how my adventurous nature in the sex-toy department had nothing to do with what I wanted from his body. Story from Sex. The first sex toy I ever purchased was a long, girthy, purple dildo. You can find it all on t.
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Plus, past research has found people who use sex toys also have better sexual functioning i.
It's an intimidating thought: when your partner's sex toy is twice as big as what you're working with.